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Sunday, July 30, 2017

Happiest Days

Caves that people used for hiding during the war, now used for storage.

I sat next to Sumiko at one of the big oval-shaped tables at the Senior's Day Care center. Between bites of sweet bean yōkan and sips of tea, she told me how she was born in Taiwan during the days of Japanese occupation.

"I grew up in Taiwan and went to an all-girls school. We were not allowed to mingle with boys; that was improper. When I came of age, I was married to a boy whose family was also from Kagoshima."

"Did you have to marry someone from Kagoshima?" I asked.

"Yes, that was the way it was done in those days. We didn't marry people from other prefectures. Our parents arranged the marriage. I had never even seen my husband before our wedding day."

"When I was 26, we moved to Japan. I worked in a garment factory in Osaka before and during the war, making uniforms."

She wasn't happy with the government in those days. She hated its militarism, but of course, she kept quiet. There was very little food or creature comforts. Like others of her generation, she rejoiced when the war ended. "It was good we lost the war," she said, echoing the comment I have heard so many times.

Sumiko and her husband then moved to Kagoshima, their ancestral city that had been completely flattened by fire. "We could see from one end of the city to the other, it was so flat." Although the city has been rebuilt, the marks of war remain in the many mountainside caves where people hid from strafing.

Dealing with the daily hardships of rebuilding a life from the nothing but the ashes of the war, she managed to raise her family.

Now, in her 90's, she concludes, "I'm enjoying the happiest days of my life. I can live off my pension. I don't need to bother my kids for money. I am free. I can do whatever I want each day."

"The happiest days," she repeated, sighing contentedly.

Saturday, July 8, 2017

Laundromat Kindness


It's rainy season. The season of mold, humidity, occasional landslides, joyful ducks, and contented rice farmers. And for me? It's a time of frequent trips to the laundromat to use the dryer.

On Sunday morning I put my wet laundry in the dryer, plunked in the coins, and drove to the pool for my customary swim. A little over an hour later, I walked back in to pick up my clothes.

Where was my laundry? The dryer I had put them in was turning and someone else's basket was perched on the wooden stool in front of it.

Scanning the room, I saw that my basket was on the large wooden table for folding clothes. The laundry inside was folded to perfection. I have never folded clothes so neatly.

"Wow! Thank you so much!" I exclaimed to the people around, sincerely grateful.

A lady folding clothes at the table looked up and shyly said, "I'm sorry. Please excuse me. Sorry." Ah, so she was the one. But, shouldn't I be the one apologizing?

"Thank you very much! That was very nice of you!" I effused.

Again, she apologized.